Here’s a wild fact: women can experience postpartum and begin perimenopause at the same time! Over the past 4 decades there has been a dramatic increase in the number of people giving birth at age 35 and older. And here’s the thing – perimenopause can start as early as 35 years old. Talk about perfect timing, right?
So what does this mean for you? If you’re having babies in your late 30s or early 40s (which is starting to become more and more common here in Washington DC, where many of us focus on our careers first), you might be navigating both postpartum recovery and perimenopause simultaneously.
Your Postpartum Hormones Mirror Menopause
Want to know what surprises almost every postpartum patient I see?
During postpartum, women’s levels of estrogen and progesterone often drop to the same levels as menopausal women. Pretty wild, right? It explains why I hear “I just don’t feel like myself… what is going on?” from so many of my clients.
Trust me, as a pelvic health therapist, I get it. I see this confusion all the time in my practice. More and more women are having babies later in life (you go, mama!), and many find themselves asking: Is this postpartum recovery or the beginning of perimenopause?
Here’s what’s happening in your body
During pregnancy, your hormones are having a party – estrogen and progesterone levels are through the roof! Then, boom – within 24 hours of delivering your placenta, these hormones crash to menopausal levels. Talk about a hormonal rollercoaster!
And recovery? It’s not exactly a quick bounce-back situation. It can take months for your hormones to find their new normal, especially since progesterone drops faster than estrogen (creating yet another fun imbalance to deal with).
Here’s what makes it extra tricky:
The Symptom Overlap Is Real
- Night sweats ✓ (both)
- Mood changes ✓ (both)
- Irregular periods ✓ (both)
- Pelvic floor changes ✓ (both)
- Sleep disruption ✓ (you guessed it… both!)
No wonder you’re feeling confused!

Distinguishing Between Postpartum or Perimenopause
Let’s talk about why you’re feeling the way you’re feeling.
The Hormone Rollercoaster
Ever wonder why your body feels so different during postpartum or perimenopause? It’s all about those hormones.
When your estrogen levels are all over the place (which happens both in postpartum and perimenopause), you might experience:
- Headaches that come out of nowhere
- Hot flashes (yes, even in postpartum!)
- Fluid retention that makes your rings suddenly feel too tight
- Changes in your energy levels
- Sleep issues (even when baby is sleeping)
This is why it’s often hard to tell if what you’re experiencing is postpartum or perimenopause – the symptoms can be so similar!
The Progesterone Effect
But here’s the real kicker:
It’s often the drop in progesterone that really impacts your mood. Think of progesterone as your body’s natural mood stabilizer. When it drops dramatically (like after birth) or becomes erratic (like in perimenopause), everything feels… different.
You might be experiencing:
- Anxiety that wasn’t there before
- Unexpected mood swings
- Depression or feeling down
- That “something’s just not right” feeling
Quick Fact: Up to 85% of new moms experience the “baby blues” – and that’s just from normal hormone changes! When perimenopause symptoms are added to the mix, your body is working overtime.
Your Body’s Big Picture
As a pelvic health therapist, I see how these hormone shifts affect everything:
- Your mood
- Your muscle tension
- Your sleep patterns
- Your overall wellbeing
Remember this: Your body is adjusting to massive changes. This adjustment period deserves patience and understanding – both from others and from yourself.
What You Need to Know
Here’s the good news: Whether your symptoms are postpartum-related, perimenopause-related, or a mix of both, there are ways to feel better. Your body isn’t broken – it’s just going through a lot of changes at once.
Let’s Talk Hormones and Your Pelvic Floor
During perimenopause, your estrogen levels start to decline. Why does this matter? Because estrogen helps keep your pelvic floor muscles strong and elastic. Less estrogen can mean:
- Weaker pelvic floor muscles
- Changes in bladder control
- Vaginal dryness
- Discomfort during intimacy
For my postpartum patients, there’s another hormone at play: relaxin. This pregnancy hormone can stick around (especially if you’re breastfeeding) and continues to affect your body by:
- Loosening your pelvic muscles and ligaments
- Making your joints less stable
- Affecting your core strength
- Impacting your pelvic floor function
When these hormonal changes overlap, your body needs extra support and attention.
When to Seek Help
Trust your instincts. If you’re experiencing any of these signs, it’s time to reach out and book a consultation:
- Pelvic, hip or low back pain that doesn’t improve
- Leaking that persists beyond the early postpartum period
- Dryness, discomfort or pain during intimacy
- Physical symptoms that make you say “this can’t be normal”
- That gut feeling that something’s not quite right with your body
I understand that navigating these changes can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re not sure what’s causing what. But here’s the thing – you don’t have to figure this out alone.
The Path Forward
Understanding what’s happening in your body is the first step. As your pelvic health therapist, I can help you:
- Strengthen your pelvic floor appropriately
- Learn techniques to manage symptoms
- Develop strategies for better core support
- Navigate these changes with confidence
Remember: Getting help isn’t just about treating symptoms – it’s about helping you feel like yourself again.
Your Next Steps
Whether you’re dealing with postpartum recovery, early perimenopause, or both at once, there’s hope. I can help you sort out your symptoms and find solutions that actually work for your body and your life.
Because let’s be honest – you’ve got enough on your plate without playing the “what’s causing this?” guessing game.Ready to feel like yourself again? Your body’s story matters, and I’m here to help you write the next chapter. Schedule a new patient pelvic PT assessment at Restore Hope Physical Therapy in Washington DC, and let’s navigate this journey together.
Other Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy Services at Restore Hope PT
I specialize in a wide range of pelvic health-related issues for all genders. Services include:
- Support for sexual dysfunction for people assigned female at birth.
- Management of constipation and abdominal pain for people assigned male and female at birth.
- Pregnancy and postpartum pelvic pain relief.
- Treatment of pelvic pain and urinary incontinence for people assigned male and female at birth.
Reach out to learn how we can help you achieve greater comfort and health.
